After a lifetime of contemplating on the complicated analyzing the confusing and dwelling on the enviable I have concluded that life is only a matter of values.
A woman wants a man to give her attention but if she can not give attention she will not receive attention. If a man wants love he must be able to give that love. If you want devotion you must be able to give devotion.
The universe is made of two of everything and anything. Positive and negative, up and down, right and wrong, left and right. Time is of no value if you have no time.
It comes down to what you value. If you want friendship you must value that friendship when found. Gold is no good if keep in a vault. Why must one possess something they do not value? If a person wants love they must value love and be willing to give. Do not expect to receive that which you do not have to give. One must learn that to expect is to anticipate and look forward to. It comes back to value when you value gold and use gold to get more gold the value of that gold is not just in the possession of owning the gold it is the value of what that gold can get for you.
Often time a woman will want a mans undivided attention has she considered that to receive that attention she must be willing to give that attention. Many times, a man wants respect and to get that respect he must give that respect.
Again, value can only be valuable if it has a meaningful meaning. Once more life is a constant assessment to value. If a person has no value he can expect no value in return. Value is built within us and if you have a belief of what that value is you can look within to find it. The perfect mate is the one with a shared value. It is far better to have two sides to a coin than one side to two coins. Think about it, yes, all is possible when one already knows what they value.
A Messenger,
Verl K.